My birthday was last week and to
help me celebrate, the Peace Corps dragged me to Manila for a full week of
In-Service Training. I was a little disappointed I didn’t get to celebrate at
my site but some volunteers who remembered my big day took me out for pizza and
it ended up being a pretty good day. But in order to enlighten you some more
cultural differences, here is what WOULD have happened if I had remained at
site.
My host mom, extracting the "juice" from the rice wine. It tastes pretty good! Kind of like a sangria but gets stronger every day you let it sit. |
Birthdays in the Philippines are
celebrated a little bit different from back home. First of all there are no
presents; if you haven’t figured it out already, nearly every celebration is
centered around food. Second, it isn’t the friends who treat the birthday-boy,
but the exact opposite. If it is your birthday, you are expected to provide
food for all your guests or pay for their dinner if eating out at a restaurant.
It can get pretty expensive and I was dreading it. I had already ordered my
rice for the wine and was counting the number of chickens I would have to buy
as my mental guest list kept rising. Teachers, family, neighbors. Those are
only the base. As word gets around, anyone might show up! However, this year I
was excused and I can start saving up properly for next year.
After the training ended in
Manila, I rushed – no wrong word – I traveled as fast as the buses would take
me back to Bauko to catch the end of our town fiesta. I was supposed to present
an encore of the Cotton Eye Joe with the teachers. Unfortunately they had to
present alone because I was an hour late which, honestly, when making a 12+
hour night trip isn’t all that bad. The highlight of the fiesta, and of this
year for that matter, was the Tiliw ti Manok (Chicken Catch). This is a popular
game where they release the fastest chicken they can find and the person who
catches it wins!
I won. I had to race against all
kinds of foes including my students, but I came out victorious. And my prize
was the chicken! Boy do I have some big plans for this chicken. It is going to
make me rich. Ahem, I mean it will make my school rich. Native chickens (any
other chicken than the standard white chicken) are the most expensive and most
prized of all chickens. When a person has a dream of a deceased relative, they
will fork out the cost of a native chicken to butcher and offer some of the
meat with a little gin to the ancestors.
thats so cool that you won! i bet you were like pushing little kids out of the way and stuff ha ha just kidding
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